Oh, yes, good point, newmama!

NO reason to mix feelings with business.

We will have to discuss details about details--one doesn't just sell a house, figure out who gets what, when to move things out--without a lot of communication. At some point it will be more efficient to do it in person--with a L present.

I will try to find a polite way to say " we do need to meet; when we are ready to discuss the details around the house sale, we should meet then."

Something like that.

thanks for chiming in.

Now to flip-flop again...so weird to hear this "please let's meet" voice...
He said "I will sell my interest in the house for $XXX"
I said: thank you for your proposal. I am considering it and will give you an answer next week"

What more needs to be said until I talk with the bankers and get a thumbs up/down??

Thanks again!


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process