WOW! So much good information. I'll reply to the posts separately so that I don't miss anything.
First of all, the "cotton candy" stuff is hilarious! That gave me a good laugh. It's especially funny because it's so true of the WAH. Everything is terrible, and it will never be good again in the opinion of the WAH.
I also agree with the "no responsibility, no blame" info you added. It's all so "I just want what I believe is best for you, no matter what you, W, think or want."
His hopelessness makes me feel sad, but it's sadness for him (not as much about us) that I feel. I feel sad that that's all he can see. I hate to imagine how he feels in that bottomless pit of despair. I know that I can't fix it or attempt to fix it, but it pains me that he has this hopeless outlook and feelings of sadness.