Sounds like she is openly telling you how she feels and what she thinks, and you just keep ignoring it.
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Sounds like you could make a lot of changes to be the best you that you can be!
Like Lotus says, she is telling you flat out what her issues are, but you appear to be dismissing them or turning them into a personal attack on you.
Don't pass up an opportunity that so many people here have wished they could have. Really listen to what she is saying. Try to defuse the pointless back-and-forth bickering; that stuff is poison to relationships.
Here's some suggested reading:
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley, Jr. For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
