Lea, I think that's the withdrawal stage. I really recommend that you read this book:

http://www.amazon.com/Journey-Abandonment-Healing-Relationship-Beginning/dp/0425172287

It really talks about the experience of abandonment, and healing from it.

Going dark = good idea. Holiday = good idea. take care.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.