H mainpulation and lies are getting worse. The trouble is he is manipulating the children for his own selfish needs.
He came today to see the children and I decided not to be at home.
Whilst I was away he tried to convince S13 to go and stay in his flat with him and OW. S13 doesn't want to see her but is frightened to say no because he thinks his dad won't come to visit him. It doesn't matter how much I try to convince him otherwise he is stuck with this thought. Previusly H manipulated S16 into seeing OW and when he tried to get out of it H made him. I didn't know about this I thought S16 had made the decision himself. H asked S16 what he thought of her. He needs them to condone what he is doing.
D19 is extremely angry with her dad because her brother was distraught and I have made her promise not to ring or text him as I need thinking time.
I will be setting boundaries as he needs to know he can't come and go as he pleases. Unfortunately I have little movement with the children as the boys what him to visit here.
Since he moved in with OW his lies and deceit appear to be worse!
