Incredible post and a big lesson for me in this as it explains why I have had such a hard week after my W made it clear this weekend that we are still in very rough seas right now. After reading this, I realized that the sense of detachment that I was feeling was indeed my confidence that things were going to work out like I wanted (W wants to R)instead of things are going to work out for me no matter what.
I realize now that there is a big difference in these two types of confidence.
