I'm not telling you to hump every skirt you come into contact with
Clear and Dry right there folks...
Date them - Don't "hump" (what are we in grade school?) them.
As fearful as I was of you Rob...
I have to admit you do make a lot of sense -
Not my forte though if I ever found myself in this same predicament again -
I won't be so "doormattish" next time.
Serenity you know I try to inject some humor in my posts, I don't want to "scare" anyone away ;-)
And you have nothing to be afraid of Serenity, I'm just here trying to help those unfortunate people that have found themselves in that "doormattish" position you referred, it sucks being walked all over and taken advantage of, I'm here to even up the odds so to speak.
Yes dating, not humping.
Going out, meeting new people, stepping out of that comfortable zone and learning something about yourself, maybe making a new friend, enjoying a meal or a drink with a stranger who you may not even see again afterwards but still good for boosting that confidence to where it needs to be during all of this process.
TD, you need to get out and do what I said, even if you can't go on an actual date, you can put up the appearance to your wayward wife that this is what you're doing without actually saying you're doing it. Go out once or twice a week in the evenings and stay out late and be mysterious as to your whereabouts.... "I just went out with a friend, you don't know them..." and that's it.
