Anyways back to what I originally started with, yes, the evil idea of .... DATING!
There are only three things that could turn this situation I figure - me dating, OM dumping W, and/or her being miserable away from home.
I won't wait around forever to see if the latter 2 happen, especially if she is happily off with OM. If things come up for me I will likely be interested, and as I said in the above post I believe that I will have opportunities. Many people know me - I am the president of a local youth sports organization with 800+ kids and just ran our opening ceremonies Saturday standing up and talking to 3000 people (lots of single moms in the crowd). That is one of the reasons I know the 'news' about her moving out and OM will spread quickly - many people in the community know who I am and it will make for some juicy gossip.
I am not sure it is the best way to attract interest, but many will at least know I am 'available' so to speak in a short amount of time.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
