Yeah I know Rbx you are right. I guess he did get away with it. I guess I just want to share some of this pain - I am sure in time I will over it.

I was really surprised by MIL's response. My H is one of 4 boys and she has always said that she would take the daughter-in-laws side. I guess I expected her to live up to her word.

My H has just had a 2 week holiday with her and since then she has been very quiet so I am sure that my H told her a bunch of cr*p.

The OW and her H are seperated - that I know for a fact. I cant confirm he received my communication, and I dont know if he cares.

So whats next?? I read somewhere that if you are going to D to at least get the best D you can. So right now I am making sure that I get the best settlement I can for myself and my kids. I have to send an email this week (which has been verified by L) re the maintenance I required. I think that this will really get my H going.

I have two girls nites planned for the next 2 weeks and my sons and I are going on Holiday to portugal for a week. We have never been on holiday just the 3 of us so am looking forward to that and some sunshine.


Me 37 years young!!
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D final 13.05.2010
Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!!
First post: D Day has arrived