It is amazing what they are willing to give up for OM. It seems crazy and that it would be just so easy to work on the M instead, but I digress.
Remember what I said, you are using logic here, here actions are fueled by her emotional state, two different ways of looking at things and rationalizing actions. You are correct that it seems crazy to YOU but to your wife it isn't crazy because she is emotionally driven to these actions. The OM does a good job of flipping those switches, it's the science of attraction, plain & simple.
