you mean if I leave and am out having sex with other men you won't D me?
I said it is a hypothetical situation (I think - she may already be doing this for all I know), and I would cross that bridge when I come to it.
My answer would have been "I'll decide when I want to divorce you until then I think I'll be having that kind of fun with other women so I can see what I'm missing out on"
Her question is a test, women test men continuously, especially in this separated situation you have going on here. Reply to her like that with a smile on your face and enjoy her reaction: you now know she's testing you and she does this constantly with her games and drama. Play it back to her, you're allowed and watch what happens, you might be pleasantly surprised at the results.
She is basically saying, "you mean I can go out and sleep with other men and you won't divorce me? This is too good to be true, sounds like a good deal to me."
Your reply would be acknowledging that maybe it's a good deal for both of you ;-)
