Journaling today's stuff. STBX sent me an email at 11:43AM (usually DD will call me in the morning around 8:30AM) telling me DD was at school and if I want her to pick her up and if she could keep her Fri so they can go to a party Sat morning.

I haven't replied because she didn't have DD call me this morning and I don't want to reply rightaway nor do I want her to think she will have the luxury of planning ahead. Things will be more spontaneous, less predictable and what's best for DD without being nasty to STBXW. I'll also only talk to STBX only on DD's topic or something she asks me. I won't tell her or share with her anything else. No small talk, no chit-chat. I'm growing stronger everyday I don't see or interact with her.

My plan for today is to leave a bit early, pick DD up from school so I don't have to see STBXW.

Oh Flowmom, I know about Retrovaille, I've mentioned to STBXW many times she wouldn't go. She won't say no but she won't say yes or show any interest. That's been the problem, even when she came back she didn't want to address the core issues. That's why I'm done putting in all the efforts.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again