Hey flowmom, thanks for stopping by! I've been tardy with the updates because I'm trying not to think about my sitch too much. I read somewhere the best way to move on is to not talk about your ex...etc but dammit I'm stronger than that, in fact, I'm trying to become an Old School Man like Clint Eastwood and Steve McQueen LOL

http://www.oldschoolman.com/2010/03/11/habits-of-the-old-school-man-part-1/

So I had a great time on Mon with my DD. I drove home, switched cars then went straight to STBXW's house to pick her up. I was in work attire but it was hot so I rolled up the sleeves of my white button up shirt, opened the top button, threw my shades on, cranked up the radio and all of a sudden I felt like I was somebody! Showed up, wife kinda did a double take and tried looking away. I immediately focused on DD, who was hiding her face under her arms. I guess she didn't want to go with me but a little of funny talk and tickling is all it took for her to immediately warm up to me and off we went. I brought over some clothes of STBXW's that'd washed with the rest of the laundry as well as her monthly allowance check that I've been giving her since she became unemployed. I gave her more this time figuring she'll have new expenses.

Let's see...so we got home, rode our bikes, she played with the neighbor's kids, we ate dinner, watched a movie then it was 'ni-night' time. Before reading her the bedtime books I let her talk to her mom. I was hoping to catch up on a few things after she went to bed but it was late for her and she wasn't falling asleep. She asked me to lie down with her. So I grabbed my blanket and pillow and laid down on the floor next to her and fell asleep there. The morning was busy, getting ready and getting her ready etc but she was awesome and with a little bit of help she got ready all by herself.

Didn't see her yesterday...

Will see her today...


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again