CLV, IMO you are doing the right thing. What other options do you have? Pursue? Beg?
I agree my moves are limited and begging and pursuing aren't options. I just need to be kind on the rare occasion that I do have contact so she doesn't feel I am completely pissed at her because I sure that would push her further away.
Interestingly enough I just found out we have our first parent teacher association meeting this Friday morning at the school. She'll be there and I get to "act as if".
I agree with you that the OM is likely irrelevant yet I still manange to believe they will live happily ever after. I thought the same thing about OM1 and look what happened.
It is tough to block out the OM factor and the more successful I am at it the better I feel. I find that the activities (rock climbing) that require my complete attention eliminate these thoughts and really all other thoughts. I need spend more time on the sharp end of my rope that will do the trick.
My Bruins didn't bet anywhere near the Dance and as such I haven't followed hoops at all this year. With that said I like Kentucky to win it all.
Good hearing from you DW. How are things going for you man?
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)