hoosier...I fully expect them to break up, always did. And then your ex-h will be forced to contemplate what it was that he was chasing all that time...not that it will matter to YOU as he never deserved you to begin with. But I had said a long time ago in a post to you, that they do and will have to face their own demons at some point. There is no avoiding it. Again, it won't make him love you again or be your husband again, but by now, hopefully you see that as a blessing in disguise anyway. Can't wait for future updates!