Jack...I read this and thought the same thing you did

Bradley
You cannot expect your wife to believe you are serious if you constantly bring up how you want to stay where you are

then it seems like you are only moving there for her
and
she will be expecting a guilt trip
(or at least I would)

like...I moved ALL THE WAY UP HERE for you and now you won't blah blah blah

Really at this point I probably would have told you to pound sand already