She says to write an email to the OP. I have only confronted the OP once and that was during the first affair. I haven't confronted since it started again. I just was always advised to not acknowledge or confront OP because that just validates her position in my marriage. OW only knows what husband has told her but he manipulates her too. The email confrontation is suppose not to say too much but enough that you know about the affair and you want your marriage.
Should I send this? I don't think so given where I am currently in my stitch but just wanted to put it out there. At this point with no intel I don't even know if he cut her off. Highly doubt it but I think it might of cooled off a bit.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
