they are almost afraid to say what happens at each house as it will hurt or spark anger in the other parent.
Kat, I'm not sure where you're inferring this from. I'd have to say if anything, so far, my two have done nothing but bubble over effervescently about the goings on at xW's house, even when I kindly ask them to not do so. If anything there is too much candor about the other household -- TMI.
Originally Posted By: bright_new_day
The things you dislike that your wife does with the kids are not any better when done for your purposes.
I think you lost me here. Are you talking about alienation against the other parent? Or something else?
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
I'd like to think that there was a middle ground between Mike Tyson and Ghandi. But if I have to err, I'll go with Ghandi.
Depends on the arena, now doesn't it?
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
How do you know that?
My niece still confides in her other uncle, my youngest brother.
To all: Again, I hear what all of you are saying. And I do take much of it under advisement.