Yes, I can see the temperature checking now...I have been trying not to read into what he does.

BTW, I am currently reading the E-book on Intervention and Protection Phase by Tuppy and WOW!! I love this part because this is what I tried to do for a year!!

"One of the biggest mistakes I've seen people make as they come to grips with a partner's infidelity is thinking that the affair is somehow their fault, that they must become the perfect spouse in order to entice their mate back into marriage."

I tried this and it didn't work :-/ I just ended up feeling resentful that it wasn't enough...guess I am just not that patient. I am still reading...haven't gotten to the protection phase part yet.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo