Yes, I can see the temperature checking now...I have been trying not to read into what he does.
BTW, I am currently reading the E-book on Intervention and Protection Phase by Tuppy and WOW!! I love this part because this is what I tried to do for a year!!
"One of the biggest mistakes I've seen people make as they come to grips with a partner's infidelity is thinking that the affair is somehow their fault, that they must become the perfect spouse in order to entice their mate back into marriage."
I tried this and it didn't work :-/ I just ended up feeling resentful that it wasn't enough...guess I am just not that patient. I am still reading...haven't gotten to the protection phase part yet.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo