I think it has gone into clinical depression. She is on the heaviest dose of Lexipro they have. She does work at the same school as the OM so there are triggers. Apparently the OM also told a friend that my W is a crazy ex lover and that he was never in love with her and my W got wind of that. I think it hit her hard and awakened her even more from her fantasy land. The OM resigned from the school and will be leaving at the end of the year and is working on his marriage, while my W is sitting at home alone with the kids sulking.

If it is clinical perhaps me (the new me) moving back in might snap her up a bit but I don't know. She is the one that wanted me out (while she was secretly seeing the OM). I'm just hoping when Summer comes and she doesn't have to see OM's car or shadow, that she will move forward.

Last edited by What next; 03/17/10 07:14 PM.