Right now you're feeding into his ego. He's acting like a spoiled child right now. It's the "you hurt me, so I'm not going to be your friend" playground mentality.
IMO you shouldn't just give it to him and give into every outrageous request he has. He has taken no ownership for what he has done.
You know two things: he wants sex, he wants escape. He says he wants to escape from you, but that's not it. He wants escape from himself. He doesn't know what he wants and is seriously messed up. Sorry, if any guy passes up sex for videogames, there's something wrong.
My suggestion would be to not offer him sex outright but tempt him with the possibility of it. Get yourself very sexy, dress confidently and alluringly. Flirt with him lightly, but not too over the top. Make yourself the prize that you are and give yourself value.
You have to get him to WANT you. It'll take some time and won't be an overnight thing, but it is possible. Play the temptress who chooses to have sex when she wants to. Not when he does.
When you show yourself confidently, sexily and change your attitude such that you almost become a different woman (think Sandy in Grease), it'll show him positive possibilities and that's what you want.
No one wants something they can get for free.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
