a question for those of you against what nm is doing.
what would she be doing differently if she was not trying to save her m?
nothing.
so is it the hope that she has to save it really the problem?
NM, are you in a mindframe that you know whatever happens, whether you save your M or not, that you will be Okay and have a great future?
hope to save, is good. hope is what helps motivate us. but I believe NM knows nothing is guaranteed, but her goal, her vision, is to save her M, and she is going to do everything she can to give her the best chance at saving it.
which is exactly what she should be doing if she wasn't trying to save it.
IMHO.
true DBing is about saving yourself.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
