I just keep wondering why you want him back at this point. That you deserve better than this, why would you settle for him at this point? I mean you could be searching for someone now that would LOVE to be a full-time dad. I mean he basically choice this OW OVER his own son. What type of integrity is that? You can excuse it all away with love chemicals, addiction, etc. When it comes down to it- a human is still responsible for the actions they take.
wow. this is a board to help SAVE M's not try to give up and find new ones.
unless someone is being abused, then anyone on here who wants to work at saving an M, should be supported in doing so.
and NM, I LOVE how you said "in sickness and in health" that is exactly how I describe these WAS... they are mentally sick. eventually, they will come out of it, and will the LBS be there? or will they have given up?
It takes 2 people to destroy a M, not one. the easy way out is D. it takes great strength to bite your tongue, humble yourself, and do the steps necessary to help save your M. And believe me, it was the hardest thing I've ever done, and I praise the Lord for allowing me to go thru that horrible hell. My M is so much better than before, and we continue to grow each year to better our R.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
