Well I lost my job. Fortunately I have a pretty decent severance so we won't starve but I will have to let me lease expire in May and be forced to wither take a cheap room somewhere are move back in the house. I told my wife this and she gave me the deer in the headlights look, but later came to me and hugged me and asked if I was OK.
She is still in deep depression. I would love to know how long this takes. I think she is transitioning from grieving for the loss of her lover tot he guilt and stupidity of being decieved after everyone and there mother told her she was being decieved and she kept saying no way its true love. Her fantasy is popped but how long does this withdrawl last. It's been 5 months now and she is as depressed today as she was when she went NC.
I trying to figure how to approach her about moving back into the house. What ground rules should be laid out. We don't have an extra room for me to sleep in so I'm trying to figure all this out. I think she knows we have no other choice other than for me going back in the house. How do you approach an in house sepration. We get a long pretty well right now.
