I don't see that happening with mine. His unhappiness is directed at me and by leaving me it goes away (so he thinks)
again, this is what they ALL feel. your sitch is no different.
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Flow - I have not repeatedly rejected him. It may seem that way but I haven't for the most part.
it's not just rejecting, it's HOW you act, your infliction of your voice, your actions, your aura. just because you "agree", doesn't mean you really agree.
sex is a great example..(not speaking of you, but most women) a husband will want sex and the wife will act like it's the biggest chore but will satisfy his request. that is worse to a guy than getting rejected. Or, they will say ya, but not be in it at all. same thing.
it's all how your actions go along with your words. and I almost promise you, that your actions have not done so, just because of what you have said here. You may not see it, but it's something other people perceive.
What romeo said is good and in regards to stepping away from him more, you don't ignore or act rude, you act busy and like your enjoying your life too much to be worried about his. but you do it in a way that's not rude, but a way that's enticing. like someone is holding out a cake that you want to eat, but just far enough that you can't touch it.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."