Do you know people who have overcome adversity in their lives and thrived? Are those people in denial of their feelings?
I don't know why I care...it's my choice and my life. So that's the end of my defensiveness- it NOT GOOD FOR PMA!!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004