More of what I am saying above is that I feel like in order to connect with my husband I need to talk to him about "us" as he says...which goes against DB and avoiding all talk about the relationship.
When I have seen him the last couple of times he has been upset that I avoid the relationship talk about "us". This is what upsets him and his reason for being unhappy in the relationship. My acting "as if" per DB doesn't jive with him. it just adds fuel to the fire on why he is upset.
Does that make sense?
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
