hmmm. I almost feel like you could use the opportunity to say something...

"H, I do appreciate your offer, but we cannot just be a part of your life when you aren't seeing someone. I think the best thing for us is to stick to the agreement we have in place. D needs to have her life be as consistent as possible and that is what I am trying my best to do"

but you have made some really great decisions up till now, so you do whatever feels best for you.

I wish wish wish you could move. those people there are pathetic and not thinking about your feelings.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."