Are you getting good marital advice?

[chatterbug]

The cornerstones of marriage are love, trust, commitment, and forgiveness. Without all four of those attributes, marriages fail. You cannot rebuild your marriage on distrust, grudge holding, and silence.

And there is no anger at all Lotus. I am at peace with what has happened in my life. I followed the path of tough love. The affair did not end. I lost a marraige. Found myself. And I even busted an affair in the progress. All healthy.

But I like to bring context to a persons opinion. Helps me understand what they are writing.