SR about the abandonment book. I'm still reading it. it does have exercises for each stage but I've only read the one for the "shattering" stage. it's basically a mindfulness exercise -- being in the present and focusing on sensations. helpful i think. but you're probably at a later stage.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.