Go read these posts:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1714027#Post1714027

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1721821#Post1721821

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1714027#Post1714027

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1714107#Post1714107

If you get a chance read through my entire situation. There are 10 threads. It will take you time but you'll see what I went through and you will see many similarities to your own sitch. You'll see the great advice I got, the mistakes I made, things I did well and in the last threads you will see a lot of what I learned in hindsight.


MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!