I'm with you in NC. It stinks. My thread is buried. I feel buried too. Both me and my kids have been written off. H says he wants to be involved with kids, but doesn't do anything about it.
I wanted to point out something I noticed in your post:
"It feels like husband has just written me off (he might feel that from me too even though it is not true). We probably communicate every other day or every two days at this point instead of our usual multiple times a day. He called to ask me our son's size while he was shopping and then told me about some physical therapy appointment he went to."
He is taking temperature! Son's size? Dr appt? Really??
"He then tells me that I am acting cold and distant but this is also after he told me that he was ready to move on."
Temperature taking. "Is she still on the rope/string/hook?"
"when I called him back"
Don't take these calls! Don't call back! He will say all sorts of things to scare you and check if you are still on the hook. "HE thinks that I am treating him cold, I left him, he is the victim and he must figure out how to move on." He's pouting and wants you to disagree with these things to reassure him.
Maybe Allen can give us a mantra to say. Something like...i want to be married to you but as long as you are with her, I am out of your life.
How is your NC letter coming?
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
