Yes, trusting is taking that flying leap into the abyss, and lo and behold, 3 years later, I have not hit bottom! It is hard to love again with the same kind of trust that we naively went into marriage in the first place. But that is why people say that a reconciled marriage is stronger than a marriage that has never been tested. Trust is a necessity, and too many times people try to hedge their bets and give lip service to the trust.