But I think the decision should mostly be left to the OMW, not the WS in this case, who is petitioning for the communication to end.
And remember the OMW is going through now a divorce apparently too, a lot more painful than reconcilliation is it not? Isn't that what we argue here?
It certainly should not end this soon.
There are precautions that can be taken :
SPeakerphone discussion only with WS, BS, and OMW present in each session. No in person visits.
Ensure OMW has a good Family Therapist that she is working with, etc
It should end, but not at teh demands of a WS feeling guilty. And yes there is risk of a counter-affair taking place, but precautions can be put in place here to ensure this doesn't happen.
I think OMW actually hearing remorse from WS and WS hearing how much hurt they have brought to someone's home (two homes in this case) will speed UP the recovery process...
The idea that this be CUT OFF becuase one person of the three feels uncomfortable doesn't rest easy with me... certainly it should'nt last indefiniately, and even offer a cut off date of say six months or so... but I woudln't budge on this right away.
