Are you getting good marital advice?

[4luv]

This has been a very interesting thread with alot of opinions whose advice I usually read and apply to my stitch. Alot of well respected veterans have replied to this thread and it is interesting to see all of your different perspectives. This is what makes this board unique and helpful.

Lotus, I remember you and june72 commenting on my stitch and you gave very valuable advice to me at the time...your advice was to LEAVE. See, you looked at my stitch along with others and saw what I couldn't see at the time. I have left but I couldn't do it at the time that you and others were telling me but I did come to that conclusion on my own eventually.

Allen and others have given me the advice on what to do in the midst of my husband being in an affair and I have noticed results with that as well. His advice gave me hope of what to do even while being separated.

My point is that all of the advice on this board is for the most part given with good intentions but it is ultimately up to the person listening to the advice to decide what to do in regards to their own stitch.