How can you fight and compete with the OP and not lose you self esteem after a while? That you are content to live in limbo with a person courting 2 people at once.
It does not seem possible
Harley states that it usually causes PTSD esp for women


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)