You have to read that first post and realize that he had been cheating for nearly 2 years and had already filed for divorce. I went through a lot before I even got here.

It is nice to hear that someone can see the progress I have made. He isn't my problem unless it involves the kids. He is living with his affair partner/fiancee. Yes, he never saw that he did anything wrong and even now wants to preach to the kids that their happiness is foremost over all else. My job is to be their reality and keep them grounded. I think that is what I would have been doing anyway.

Would I like to see Karma come and greet the two of them...YOU BET!! However I am not holding my breath. Keep the focus here, working on me and creating the fantastic life I want. Slow going sometimes but anything worth having doesn't come along without hard work. Oh, I have to remember that when I think of losing some weight! lol

Thanks for stopping by, you are welcome anytime.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory