Are you getting good marital advice?

[june72]

I don't get MWD's advice to outshine the other person.

There is no way to do this! It's end up with 2 people competing for one. The ultimate cake eating event. Fence sitting forever. A cr@ppy love triangle.

The OP is new and fresh and a fantasy. Each person is meeting the need of the cheater. The ultimate in happiness.

I definitely liked Rocked's approach.

I am definitely a fan of the firmer approach advocated by Puppy, Allen, Gucci, Rob, etc.