Are you getting good marital advice?

[june72]

Speaking as a piecer and very long time reader.
The advice is all across the board here- some really bad, some amazing. I am sure that people see my advice as really bad at times, maybe all the time who knows...
To quibble over whose advice is bad or harmful or correct is silly. Buyer beware- you know you are getting free advice from strangers. I think people get that. I think it is wonderful to get others people thoughts on things too.

People are smart enough to own their own actions and not be controlled but a person off the Internet.

IDK, I don't think MC always give out got advice even. Not IC's at times.

I have no experience with infidelity. I can not profess to know what it's like to have that happen. I can still give my insight on the matter. I can definitely give my insight on marraige dynamics though.

I also see a lot of people on this site dealing with spouses with mental illness. Sad b/c nothing will get better till the illness is addressed.

I believe in MLC but still people need to be held responsible for their actions and not excuse away a persons behavior.


Sorry I am rambling all over the place.