Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
H came home last Thursday. After I picked him up at the airport I drove straight to TGI Fridays. I told him I was hungry, so I was buying him lunch. Pleasantly surprised him.
Its been casual since he has been home. Low key and no pressure on either of our parts. (Nice!)
I had a jewelry party Friday night, babysat for some friends Saturday night, and visited with friends Sunday afternoon. Sunday morning he asked me to go to breakfast at Denny's and I told him it sounded wonderful.
Back to work for him, job hunting and back to school for me this morning. I am supposed to be on Spring Break, but my online teachers still expect work to be done. (WTF?) Oh well, I better get to it.
Today is SMW's Birthday!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Feeling crappy this morning. Its only a speedbump. But where in the rulebooks does it say what I WANT doesn't matter? Why do WA's have the right to be so insensitive? Yeah- we know how you feel. Really. Spare me!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
But where in the rulebooks does it say what I WANT doesn't matter?
I remember the rule was something like this, "Love your neighbor as yourself." Maybe put a little more focus on taking care of yourself for a while. Are you giving off the vibe that what you want doesn't matter?
What's a healthy solution?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Coach, that is an excellent question. I am going to focus on me more. I had to be cajoled by my family, but I am going to go to Florida April 18-21st. It is costing me some money, but it will be time with my family that is in short supply with us in different states.
I also have a trip planned in May to go to Key West with a girlfriend for some serious GAL time.
Sometimes it appears that my healthiest solution is just to not give a crud.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Focusing on myself - check. Trip to Florida - check.
I hope everyone is well.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Focusing on myself - check. Trip to Florida - check.
I hope everyone is well.
Good to hear from you. Good, thanks. You sound well, between this and your last post. Me: Focusing on myself. Trip to Colorado to see S34 next Wednesday. Speaking of your last post, I don't remember/must have missed:
Originally Posted By: The Wifey
also have a trip planned in May to go to Key West with a girlfriend for some serious GAL time.
Can't wait to hear about this. I've really been meaning to go to the Keys, don't know where to begin planning! And this:
Originally Posted By: The Wifey
Sometimes it appears that my healthiest solution is just to not give a crud.
Is just great! Gardener likes this.
Stay well.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
