Hon, we aren't talking about your brother we are talking about you. Your situation, your kids. You ARE divorced. You are putting those wonderful boys in the middle, they are almost afraid to say what happens at each house as it will hurt or spark anger in the other parent.

Teaching your kids morals is great but no where are we told to use the other parent as the sinner as an example. Your ex is a troubled soul. Realize that and do all you can to teach your kids the right way. Harboring all this anger and pain is no way to do it. You are destroying yourself in the process.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory