Doc, There are some great tips in here, that I hadn't thought of, such as removing all traces of smoking in the house and cars. I will bring them up when the time is right. It's hard to know when to speak-up. I'll let her take the lead, and offer assistance as-needed.
For now, my contribution is to keep her busy with positive activity. She needs a push sometimes to get out of her computer chair and do something constructive. The dance team will add more activity to her life. I've been going out on the weekends to breakfast with her. I got her connected to my chiropractor and massage therapist, and she now goes weekly.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
