I let it go. I can't stop H from doing any of what he's doing. I've detached further.
Keep working on this SA.
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At the beginning when H first left he was more careful as to what he let me know as far as what he was doing with ow. Now that I've backed off I guess he just figures that I don't care anymore and whatever he does is OK with me.
They go through their own process. Anger because we give them what they ask for...
Indifference after a while...
All depends on the mood of the moment....
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One of his complaints as he was getting ready to leave was that he thought I didn't love him like a woman should love her husband.
You are not the only one who has heard this.
Can you say projection?
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I wonder if H will ever understand how much I did and do love him by letting him go.
Maybe someday...
But does that change anything for you?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
