It's been an eventful few days for you. So sorry to hear about S and your grandma, but glad they are doing better now. I'm noticed that no matter how much you try to protect the ones you love from all this craziniess, it still becomes a family affair because they care! When my mom went thru all the illness last fall and they couldn't figure out what was causing it, the only other thought was that it was caused by stress, and the only stress in her life is my sitch. Even though I know it's not my fault, it's still hard to see my life affecting others. Now I specifically don't tell her all the ups and downs with H, but it's also hard to loose her to talk to.
Interesting about H. Like you said, this is his normal cycle. But the thing I found most interesting though is that he talked to some people about the sitch. I just wonder what direction they were encouraging him to take. I hope they were good quality people giving him sound advice. From his texts, he just sounds like a very broken man who is already having to stew in the mess he's made. Just keep doing what you know is right and he either will or won't come around. You can't control that, but you can refuse to not continue on the hampster wheel with him. I thought you really did excellent with that on your responses to him and it sounded like he was a bit shocked by it all. But words are still just words, and we're still missing the actual actions. Good luck with the meeting today and hopefully you'll have the outcome you need so that you will still have options in which way you want to take this all (house, D or no D, etc).
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
