I also worry that when some of the newbies arrive in the infidelity forum, they are in such a bad way, they may act on advice without thinking through exactly how it might affect their own situation.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength