If someone is in limbo, I am curious to see why they are not divorced yet...what practices are they putting into place to stall the D?
newmama - i know you have offered thoughts on my most recent finding of my W affair.
right now i would call us in limbo - no talk of divorce...any more - i have laid down boundries that we are using right now, the biggest thing is she cut off all contact from him about a month ago when i really started digging.
she read DR and is able to see how i was the way i was and she the way she was. she made her choice and now we are dealing with it.
bottom line is this stupid thing has really shown us that we lost something we cannot change the past but are willing to try to make the future better.
now we have 3 kids so i may be a different case than one without.
Last edited by gman; 03/17/1003:41 PM.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
