I think our marriage is on the mend.

[june72]

Yes, she was not pro-marriage at all. She told me she was working with another couple to work out an open-marraige arrangement.

WHAT!!!! That is when I knew that this idiot had made things worse for us.


Not he definitely was a jerk and has been atoning and actually owning up to his sh@it. I was a jerk too.

I was stuck with him for health reasons and money issues (laid-off) and then my younger son was quite sick for some time and again I needed to lean on him.

My only goal for year swas to "Get the h@ll awayfrom him" with a D when I could afford it. He knows this. 2 years ago I started be the WAS. I told him I could no longer do this, maybe we need to separate etc.
After years of begging for MC then he agreed to it. But not to fix the marraige to only fix me and point out my flaws that needed correctly. The entire 7 months of MC was what problems he had with me. I never ever got to speak my piece in MC not even once. I asked the MC when is my turn and she got snippy and stated- why aren't you speaking up? That's your job! I responded- I thought you were the one in charge here. I don't want to play the victim so I am hearing and listening and understanding but zero as been addressed about my concerns.