About the case for those who have reconciled offering advice- I want to clarify. To me it is important to know if someone advising has reconciled or not because I can understand that poster's state of mind a little better.
Ex: I expect that if someone is posting and is divorced or permanently separated, they will have a jaded view at times of what one should do. It is not to say that their advice is invalid, it is to say that their advice is going to be negatively-emotionally charged. I hope that makes sense.
If someone has reconciled, I am curious to see their story and how they acheived that outcome because there are different paths to R.
If someone is in limbo, I am curious to see why they are not divorced yet...what practices are they putting into place to stall the D?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
