He, as with another neighbor asked if they could throw a party or take my H and I out to dinner. Again, I said, I needed to speak with my H. I was trying to hold off on having any contact with H, but they are "pressing" for an answer; so I plan to write a brief text to tell him about the neighbor's request and ask him to get back to them. But my question for you all is this: I don't want anyone in my business so I want to ask my H NOT to mention our situation to our neighbors in any capacity. Do you think he will see this as controlling? And should I attend either (a dinner or party) if he agrees to the neighbors request?
Personally I think asking HIM not to say anything can be viewed by him as controling but I'll leave the experts to respond.
I personally, would not bother to text or email him and would provide his contact info to your neighbors. Let them call him.
keep your head up - you are doing fine.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
