There's no room for compromise when it comes to separating the addict from the source of their addiction (and make no mistake, affairs are HIGHLY addictive. Puppy
Seems to say that if WE have sex it will release new chemicals that will suppress the "in love" chemicals. Specifically Vasopressin and oxytocin suppress dopamine and norepinephrine. Dopamine and norepinephrine are the passion chemicals. Vasopressin and oxytocin are the attachment chemicals.
What do you make of that? (there is no reason to believe she would agree to have sex, with me, of course. She's "in love" with the OW...)
Amybel
M: 46, WAW:47 M: 12y T: 16y EA with OW 2/26/10 Bomb 3/9 "in love w/ my ex" MC 3/12 NC 3/17 Bomb 3/31 "D on April 9 Trial Sep 4/1 http://tinyurl.com/amybelstory